Showing posts with label christian women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label christian women. Show all posts
Sunday, 8 May 2011
Happy Mother's Day
Wednesday, 13 April 2011
Polished Casual
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| I am totally loving the wide leg jeans that are in this season. |
Polished Casual by The Modesty Movement featuring a reversible jacket
Wednesday, 3 November 2010
My Blog-a-versery! Fashion, Contests, & PRIZES!!!
OMG, I almost forgot that last month marked an entire year that The Modesty Movement has been up and running. I want to thank all my followers, and all those who regularly visit the blog.I hope each and every last one of you are examples of what a true Diamond Girl is, and you all are helping spread the message of TRUE BEAUTY and MODESTY to women everywhere. Please continue to support this blog, and tell others to visit as well. Never forget that you are a diamond and that brilliant shine starts from within. LOVE YOU ALL!!! A special Thank You to my contributing writer Hannah Kingsley, I appreciate you girl! To celebrate, I am going to hold two contests. The First contest is going to be a Holiday Modest Fashionista Contest, and Design a new Banner Contest. I will post rules tomorrow (Insha Allah/God willing)!!!Wednesday, 15 September 2010
Modesty of The Heart by Hannah Kingsley
Wearing modest clothing is an important issue, but sometimes people can become so wrapped up in the issue of modest clothing that they neglect a significant part of what modesty comprises: modesty of the heart. It is important not to dismiss dressing modestly, but without modesty of the heart, what a woman dresses in really means nothing. A recent video on this blog touched on the fact that outward modesty shouldn’t be something that is forced, but a way of dressing and comporting oneself that arises from one’s heart. Ideally, a woman should be both modest of heart and in her attire.
I like a quote that I read recently: "Do not imagine that if you meet a really humble man he will be what most people call ‘humble’ nowadays: he will not be a sort of greasy, smarmy person, who is always telling you that, of course, he is nobody. Probably all you will think about him is that he seemed a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest in what you said to him.. He will not be thinking about humility: he will not be thinking about himself at all." (C. S. Lewis). This is a quote on humility, but it has so many applications when it comes to modesty! I have heard of shirts that say “Modest is Hottest” and have seen people dressed in decent clothing, but who were very flirtatious toward men. They might have dressed the part of someone embracing modesty, but their heart said differently! Someone who is truly modest will reflect that inside and outside.
The focus when dressing is completely different for someone with a modest heart, because his or her focus is not on making oneself as attractive as possible. It is far more selfless, and less envious. A woman who understands her value and is able to be free in this knowledge by dressing modestly can be less oppressed than other women. She can have a higher sense of self esteem because she knows that her value does not come from what other people think of her physical beauty- they aren’t critiquing her exposed body because she dresses with decency and self-respect. It frees her from being a part of the competition to ‘best’ other young ladies by dressing more provocatively and seeking even more attention, because she is comfortable dressing in clothing that covers. It allows her to be known for who is, not just how she looks. Autumn is coming even closer, so as some of you restock your wardrobes, consider this: is your heart dressed in beauty as well?
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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain.
- author unknown
I don't love studying. I hate studying. I like learning. Learning is beautiful.
- Natalie Portman
I like a quote that I read recently: "Do not imagine that if you meet a really humble man he will be what most people call ‘humble’ nowadays: he will not be a sort of greasy, smarmy person, who is always telling you that, of course, he is nobody. Probably all you will think about him is that he seemed a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest in what you said to him.. He will not be thinking about humility: he will not be thinking about himself at all." (C. S. Lewis). This is a quote on humility, but it has so many applications when it comes to modesty! I have heard of shirts that say “Modest is Hottest” and have seen people dressed in decent clothing, but who were very flirtatious toward men. They might have dressed the part of someone embracing modesty, but their heart said differently! Someone who is truly modest will reflect that inside and outside.
The focus when dressing is completely different for someone with a modest heart, because his or her focus is not on making oneself as attractive as possible. It is far more selfless, and less envious. A woman who understands her value and is able to be free in this knowledge by dressing modestly can be less oppressed than other women. She can have a higher sense of self esteem because she knows that her value does not come from what other people think of her physical beauty- they aren’t critiquing her exposed body because she dresses with decency and self-respect. It frees her from being a part of the competition to ‘best’ other young ladies by dressing more provocatively and seeking even more attention, because she is comfortable dressing in clothing that covers. It allows her to be known for who is, not just how she looks. Autumn is coming even closer, so as some of you restock your wardrobes, consider this: is your heart dressed in beauty as well?
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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain.
- author unknown
I don't love studying. I hate studying. I like learning. Learning is beautiful.
- Natalie Portman
Sunday, 14 March 2010
Are You A Diamond Girl Revisited
Hey Everyone, I was just reading over some of my old posts, and I decided to repost my article entitled Diamod Girl or Fake Pearl. I hope it re-inspires those who have already read it, and for those who haven't I hope that it inspires you to take this journey of reflection and beauty.
PROTECTING THE
FAMILY JEWELS
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend, and most girls would rather have a genuine 1 carat diamond ring set in platinum or gold, than to be handed a beautiful, yet fake strand of pearls?
The reason diamonds are the most valued and sought after jewels is because of the uniqueness of each stone, and how rare they are. Did you realize that no two diamonds are the same. It takes years of patience and perfect timing to harvest diamonds from the earth so that they can be turned into prize pieces of jewelry.
We as women are supposed to be like diamonds, highly sought after, yet hard to obtain; but in today’s culture many women have forgotten the power that God has given us. The power of our femininity and sexuality. Many women today have become easy for men to obtain, and objectified for sexual conquests. We see the girl in the music video, or in the magazine, and think I want men to want me just like her. Some women think that the more skin they show, or the sexier they look, the more male attention they will attract, but what they don’t realize is that when men see how sexy they are dressed, they automatically put them in a box. Box A is the Potential Wife Material box, and Box B is This Girl Is Easy box. As Sherry Argov puts it” ...When he sees you scantily dressed, he is not reminded of how great you look naked. He immediately thinks of all the other men you’ve slept with.”; (Why Men Marry B**ches pg.19)Research has shown, that although men will break their necks to look at the girl who is barley dressed, they are more intrigued by the woman who is subtly sexy, or not flaunting her sexuality openly. The mystery of what jewels lie beneath, makes them want to take the time to get to know her better.
Women need to wake up and realize that we hold the power to have society respect us in the way that we want, this is an even greater responsibility to those women who profess to be Christians. The power that we seek begins with us, and the image that we create for ourselves through our choice of clothing, our attitude, our words, and our actions.
I am challenging YOU, for the next 30 days to deeply reflect on the choice of clothing that you make, why you are choosing to wear the clothes that you wear, and how your choices affect the way you are treated. If you wear low cut shirts, and love showing your cleavage (as I used to LOVE to do), cover the “girls” up. Wear short skirts? Try wearing them knee length. I challenge you NOT to openly flaunt your sexuality with your clothing for the next 30 days. Try being creative with your clothing with a focus on looking feminine and classy, instead of sexy, or sexy and trashy (which is the worst combination). Let people, especially men see that you are a diamond (because they can easily tell a diamond from a fake pearl), because of your mind and special talents that God gave to you, not because you have big breasts, big butts, or shapely thighs.
PROTECTING THE
FAMILY JEWELS
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend, and most girls would rather have a genuine 1 carat diamond ring set in platinum or gold, than to be handed a beautiful, yet fake strand of pearls?
The reason diamonds are the most valued and sought after jewels is because of the uniqueness of each stone, and how rare they are. Did you realize that no two diamonds are the same. It takes years of patience and perfect timing to harvest diamonds from the earth so that they can be turned into prize pieces of jewelry.
We as women are supposed to be like diamonds, highly sought after, yet hard to obtain; but in today’s culture many women have forgotten the power that God has given us. The power of our femininity and sexuality. Many women today have become easy for men to obtain, and objectified for sexual conquests. We see the girl in the music video, or in the magazine, and think I want men to want me just like her. Some women think that the more skin they show, or the sexier they look, the more male attention they will attract, but what they don’t realize is that when men see how sexy they are dressed, they automatically put them in a box. Box A is the Potential Wife Material box, and Box B is This Girl Is Easy box. As Sherry Argov puts it” ...When he sees you scantily dressed, he is not reminded of how great you look naked. He immediately thinks of all the other men you’ve slept with.”; (Why Men Marry B**ches pg.19)Research has shown, that although men will break their necks to look at the girl who is barley dressed, they are more intrigued by the woman who is subtly sexy, or not flaunting her sexuality openly. The mystery of what jewels lie beneath, makes them want to take the time to get to know her better.
Women need to wake up and realize that we hold the power to have society respect us in the way that we want, this is an even greater responsibility to those women who profess to be Christians. The power that we seek begins with us, and the image that we create for ourselves through our choice of clothing, our attitude, our words, and our actions.
I am challenging YOU, for the next 30 days to deeply reflect on the choice of clothing that you make, why you are choosing to wear the clothes that you wear, and how your choices affect the way you are treated. If you wear low cut shirts, and love showing your cleavage (as I used to LOVE to do), cover the “girls” up. Wear short skirts? Try wearing them knee length. I challenge you NOT to openly flaunt your sexuality with your clothing for the next 30 days. Try being creative with your clothing with a focus on looking feminine and classy, instead of sexy, or sexy and trashy (which is the worst combination). Let people, especially men see that you are a diamond (because they can easily tell a diamond from a fake pearl), because of your mind and special talents that God gave to you, not because you have big breasts, big butts, or shapely thighs.
Friday, 13 November 2009
Sometimes It gets hard
I seriously thought the "Hoochie" in me was dead and gone, but there have been a few times this week, where I felt as though her spirit was lingering around. I sometimes look at women dressed more like "Fake Pearls" than "Diamond Girls", and I actually find myself feeling envious, if that's even the appropriate word.I mean I look was looking at a woman that came into the salon where I work, and she had a really cute shape, a tube top on, bangin high heel shoes, and some stretch jeans, and a beautiful necklace, and I actually found myself saying well that outfit is kind of cute, and having nostalgic memories of my former days when I used to go out of the way to show off my curves. Sometimes I feel that I am in the struggle to be a Modest Fashionista all by myself. Do you all ever feel like that? Am I in this alone, or is there anyone out there that feels me. I am realizing, in more areas than one, in my life, that taking the high road is difficult and lonely at times. It is not easy having, and maintianing standards.
Wednesday, 11 November 2009
Eliza Magazine
If you dont't know already, then you should know,that is about Eliza Magazine. Eliza is the "Vogue" magazine for the modest fashionista. Contemporary, thought provoking, and just plain entertaining. I am personally elated that someone has recognized that most women don't want to see other women half naked on every other page that they turn, and the fact that they make a concious effort to use real women and professional models, make me just want to had out a subscribtion notice to every woman I see. If you want a guide to beautiful clothes,and thought provoking articles then you absolutely must read.
Sunday, 25 October 2009
Diamond Girl Fake Pearl Challenge
PROTECTING THE
FAMILY JEWELS
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend, and most girls would rather have a genuine 1 carat diamond ring set in platinum or gold, than to be handed a beautiful, yet fake strand of pearls?
The reason diamonds are the most valued and sought after jewels is because of the uniqueness of each stone, and how rare they are. Did you realize that no two diamonds are the same. It takes years of patience and perfect timing to harvest diamonds from the earth so that they can be turned into prize pieces of jewelry.
We as women are supposed to be like diamonds, highly sought after, yet hard to obtain; but in today’s culture many women have forgotten the power that God has given us. The power of our femininity and sexuality. Many women today have become easy for men to obtain, and objectified for sexual conquests. We see the girl in the music video, or in the magazine, and think I want men to want me just like her. Some women think that the more skin they show, or the sexier they look, the more male attention they will attract, but what they don’t realize is that when men see how sexy they are dressed, they automatically put them in a box. Box A is the Potential Wife Material box, and Box B is This Girl Is Easy box. As Sherry Argov puts it” ...When he sees you scantily dressed, he is not reminded of how great you look naked. He immediately thinks of all the other men you’ve slept with.”; (Why Men Marry B**ches pg.19)Research has shown, that although men will break their necks to look at the girl who is barley dressed, they are more intrigued by the woman who is subtly sexy, or not flaunting her sexuality openly. The mystery of what jewels lie beneath, makes them want to take the time to get to know her better.
Women need to wake up and realize that we hold the power to have society respect us in the way that we want, this is an even greater responsibility to those women who profess to be Christians. The power that we seek begins with us, and the image that we create for ourselves through our choice of clothing, our attitude, our words, and our actions.
I am challenging YOU, for the next 30 days to deeply reflect on the choice of clothing that you make, why you are choosing to wear the clothes that you wear, and how your choices affect the way you are treated. If you wear low cut shirts, and love showing your cleavage (as I used to LOVE to do), cover the “girls” up. Wear short skirts? Try wearing them knee length. I challenge you NOT to openly flaunt your sexuality with your clothing for the next 30 days. Try being creative with your clothing with a focus on looking feminine and classy, instead of sexy, or sexy and trashy (which is the worst combination). Let people, especially men see that you are a diamond (because they can easily tell a diamond from a fake pearl), because of your mind and special talents that God gave to you, not because you have big breasts, big butts, or shapely thighs.
FAMILY JEWELS
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend, and most girls would rather have a genuine 1 carat diamond ring set in platinum or gold, than to be handed a beautiful, yet fake strand of pearls?
The reason diamonds are the most valued and sought after jewels is because of the uniqueness of each stone, and how rare they are. Did you realize that no two diamonds are the same. It takes years of patience and perfect timing to harvest diamonds from the earth so that they can be turned into prize pieces of jewelry.
We as women are supposed to be like diamonds, highly sought after, yet hard to obtain; but in today’s culture many women have forgotten the power that God has given us. The power of our femininity and sexuality. Many women today have become easy for men to obtain, and objectified for sexual conquests. We see the girl in the music video, or in the magazine, and think I want men to want me just like her. Some women think that the more skin they show, or the sexier they look, the more male attention they will attract, but what they don’t realize is that when men see how sexy they are dressed, they automatically put them in a box. Box A is the Potential Wife Material box, and Box B is This Girl Is Easy box. As Sherry Argov puts it” ...When he sees you scantily dressed, he is not reminded of how great you look naked. He immediately thinks of all the other men you’ve slept with.”; (Why Men Marry B**ches pg.19)Research has shown, that although men will break their necks to look at the girl who is barley dressed, they are more intrigued by the woman who is subtly sexy, or not flaunting her sexuality openly. The mystery of what jewels lie beneath, makes them want to take the time to get to know her better.
Women need to wake up and realize that we hold the power to have society respect us in the way that we want, this is an even greater responsibility to those women who profess to be Christians. The power that we seek begins with us, and the image that we create for ourselves through our choice of clothing, our attitude, our words, and our actions.
I am challenging YOU, for the next 30 days to deeply reflect on the choice of clothing that you make, why you are choosing to wear the clothes that you wear, and how your choices affect the way you are treated. If you wear low cut shirts, and love showing your cleavage (as I used to LOVE to do), cover the “girls” up. Wear short skirts? Try wearing them knee length. I challenge you NOT to openly flaunt your sexuality with your clothing for the next 30 days. Try being creative with your clothing with a focus on looking feminine and classy, instead of sexy, or sexy and trashy (which is the worst combination). Let people, especially men see that you are a diamond (because they can easily tell a diamond from a fake pearl), because of your mind and special talents that God gave to you, not because you have big breasts, big butts, or shapely thighs.
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